Keep Moving Forwards

Hey!
Thank you so so much for the advice on my last post I did try it out and it was amazing!! I had literally the best day! I could be more open, I could talk to random yet amazingly nice people on the bus and talk more in class

This post is about our future selves and not to keep living in our past to avoid the future. I know some people might think the future holds mean and brutal things but I'm here to reassure you it won't. This is just your body's way of telling you that you're worried about the future. But the future will hold so many bright and beautiful things that you will definitely be able to make amazing memories with.

At the moment I don't really know what the future may hold so this means I don't know what job I want or how many children I want.( Believe me some people do think that far ahead and there is nothing wrong with doing so). For quite a long time I felt really down and as though I was the only one who felt this way. Many people were pressuring me to have a clear image of what i want to the future to be like and if i want to go to university. I was pretty much clueless. Then suddenly I realised I was not the only one who felt this way. In fact so many people enjoy living life by a simple phrase "Live your life like everyday is the last"

I have recently realised that this is actually quite accurate because if you are so focused and have convinced yourself that you won't like your future then you won't enjoy the present time!!! Because although it might seem a little weird knowing you're going to grow up and begome somebody older , wiser and perhaps more intelligent who knows. Don't be worried about growning up becaus eit won't be that bad. I'm not saying to wish your life away and act older than you actually are but you should definitely not be anxious about the future.

I like to think of life as a game of M.A.S.H. You might of heard of it before. Basically, you pick 4 random things for some categories such as job, kids, husband, car . Then you draw a spiral; count how many lines there are, then go along counting until that number then you cross out the option. This is how I think of life. You can't make a decision straight away because it might change.

Thanks for reading and remember you don't need to know what the future will hold because the thing is that life is unexpected. Anything could happen who knows.

If you do know what you want to be or have more advice for me and those who don't quite know yet leave it down in the comments below and it would give me a real big helping hand if you could share this post on Google, Facebook and other media sites

Talkative Girl (time to stop talking)