Hey!
Well, this is my first real blog and I'm super excited so let's begin.
This post is quite personal to you guys and for me, It's all about what we think about ourselves whether it's positive thinking or negative I think I should discuss it.
I know a lot of you including me think way to much about what other think of you. This is completely natural especially around your teenage part of life you're constantly worrying about your appearance and if it's appealing to the opposite gender (or the same gender). This is pretty normal, I of all people should know because I constantly feel as though I have to dress to impress and make sure I look great all of the time (which is almost impossible).
Let's say you have a crush and you really want him to like you back so you start pretending to be somebody you're not just to get his attention and you wear make up for him and not for you.This is so wrong I can't begin to stress how important it is for you to do something like change your style of clothing or begin to wear makeup just because of someone else. Do it for yourself and not for them because believe me it's a waste of time. I know this is gonna sound a bit old school because everyone says it but If they don't like you for you then they are not worth your time. But this is easier said than done because You will always have the strong thought that you have to be wildly attractive to the opposite gender or the same but you don't. I think that on day- and i know this is going to sound really cringy but- you will meet your soul mate, the who is perfect for you . Your missing puzzle piece. Okay now it's sounding very cringy so you get the point.
If you don't like the way you look well get used to it because that is you body and you might not think you're all that beautiful but I'm absolutely positive you are. Inside and out. So if you're a bit worried about an outbreak of spots you're having that's when you could use a little concealer to make yourself feel more comfortable. If you're worried about something that you're most likely stuck with such as freckles, then stop worrying there beautiful because it's a part of you. They make you different from other people, There what make you, you. so don't put layers of foundation,concealer, powder over them to cover them up. If you're self conscious about your weight and you feel as though you're to big then go on a small diet change for yourself so you feel less anxious about it not because you want to impress somebody.
Thanks so much for listening to me ramble on about this as I do feel very strongly about it. I also hope I help some of you guys understand that everyone is beautiful in there own way. I also hope so much that i gave you so advice to help you feel better about yourself. If so please tell me in the comments below.
Talkative girl x (time to stop talking)
Hi!
ReplyDeleteI always worry about what people think about me, too. Last year, I was really bad for being my own person you know? I'm trying to be better at it, though. Whenever you start getting really self concious, you need to ask yourself 'hmm... do I know this person?' If the answer is no, then you probably won't see them again and so you can just be yourself. If the answer is yes, and you're friends, then they probably already know what your like, so be like that. In short, don't let people think your someone you aren't!!!
Kisses, Rose
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DeleteThank you so much for the advice I am definitely going to try it!
Talkative Girl x
Okay, let me know how it goes, it usually works for me!!!
DeleteHey Rose,
DeleteOMG you are a life saver I can speak aloud in class and talk to random yet nice people on the bus you have made me have a great day!!
talkative Girl x
I'm happy to have helped!!! :-)
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