Monday, 22 February 2016

Be Unique!

Hey!!
First things first, yes I am back and I know I keep leaving but I am going to try stay on here no matter what is happening in my life because you guys always manage to make me feel great. Secondly, I am aware I have been nominate for the Liebster  Award but I am not exactly 100% sure what is actually  is so it would be really helpful if you could explain to me.  Whatever it is I am surer it will be wonderful because you guys have nominated me!! Now without further ado, I am going to continue with this post.

Well, if the title didn't give it away I will be talking to you guys about being unique because be all are unique and I really want to stress that you shouldn't hate yourself because you are who you are, and believe me you are perfect.

At this very moment in time I am reading a book called "Stargirl". Now this is a beautiful parable about a girl who is different and unique and was loved and hated for doing so but it did win the heart of a boy because you learn to love the way that she is unique. Now, I am aware that this is just a story but it contains so many great life lesson that even I need to start following. This one girl who dares to be different, yeah she gets looked at but after a while you wish everyone would just be a "Stargirl".

Being unique is something we all do but being able to love every last part of yourself for being unique is the hard part, in fact it is one of the hardest thing a person can do. Accept them selves for being who they are. I don't know why but all the time we want the opposite of something we have. For example, if there was a girl with freckles she wouldn't want freckles, yet someone else would probably what freckles because they think they are cute . Or a tall girl/boy might want to he short where as a short girl/boy might want to be tall. I don't know why but we always want the things we don't have. I wouldn't say it's being greedy but I would say it has a lot to do with your self a steam. I know it is extremely hard to have a high self a steam and great charisma levels all the time but all you have to do is be comfortable in yourself. Try to build your confidence. I know this is easier said than done but try to maybe not wear make up everyday (I have not mastered this one yet), try to raise your hand at least once every lesson, try to get out the house more often. If you are really struggling with these issues then you need to do something about it because the only people your upsetting is yourself.

I know this was a very heart felt post but I think you guys seem to enjoy these the most because they are my most viewed so here is another because my last most viewed was "beauty and boys" which was actually my first real blog and this is sort of like a follow up to that as they link together. I will try my very hardest to do my blog more regularly and if you guys are interested you should read "Stargirl" as it is a really good book that fits all ages. Thanks for stopping by but for now bye!!

Talkative Girl (time to stop talking) xx      

4 comments:

  1. Yay!!!! You're blogging again!! I really agree with you that we all struggle with being proud to be unique and ourselves, I know I definately do.
    As for the Liebster Award, you will find it on my blog (Which you can get to via clicking my profile). Basically you answer a bunch of questions and its to help small bloggers get bigger!!!
    Keep on blogging this time!
    Kisses, Rose
    xxx

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  2. I hope you don't mind, Talkative Girl, but I've nominated you for Liebster award as well! Love ur blog!
    -ALice Eastburn

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  3. Hey!!
    I will be uploading my liebster award post on Friday with all the questions thanks byeee.
    Talkative Girl (Time to stop talking)

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  4. Hey!!
    I am so so so sorry I can not upload the liebster Award post until Saturday or Sunday as I had no clue how long it would be I am about 50% done and I have being working on it since Wednesday! again, I am so sorry!
    Talkative Girl (time to stop talking) xx

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